The one your words really hit

What you say offhand is heavy for them.

You said "that's weird" lightly, and they minded it forever.

ESTP's words hit INTJ.

ESTPJ♦The charging captain

Decides now. Moves now.
Strong. Doesn't lose.
Hard to see people's feelings.

ESTP's page

INTJK♠The quiet strategist

A contradiction in the story bugs them.
Quiet. But watching closely.
Weak at pushing.

INTJ's page

Good stuff

They think you're amazing.
Your praise works best of all.

Watch out

Something you said lightly wounds them.
They're tense in front of you.

How to make it work

Praise. Don't correct.
Keep a little distance.

Gifts

ESTP → A surprise planned ahead. Something that lasts.
INTJ → Words. A letter, or saying it properly.

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40jk = 4 letters, 0 seconds. Joker & King.
The long version (mechanics, records, real pairs) is on the main site.
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Four letters can change every time you take the test. Read it without deciding anyone is a type. Read first: about typing