The one your words really hit

What you say offhand is heavy for them.

You said "that's weird" lightly, and they minded it forever.

ESFJ's words hit ISTP.

ESFJA♣The captain of cheer

Always checking everyone's having fun.
Looks after people.
Doesn't think ahead.

ESFJ's page

ISTPK♦The silent craftsman

Makes and fixes in silence.
Hates waste.
Doesn't say feelings.

ISTP's page

Good stuff

They think you're amazing.
Your praise works best of all.

Watch out

Something you said lightly wounds them.
They're tense in front of you.

How to make it work

Praise. Don't correct.
Keep a little distance.

Gifts

ESFJ → Something with a proper explanation. Something with a clean mechanism.
ISTP → Something new and interesting. A tool they don't know.

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40jk = 4 letters, 0 seconds. Joker & King.
The long version (mechanics, records, real pairs) is on the main site.
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Four letters can change every time you take the test. Read it without deciding anyone is a type. Read first: about typing